Toto je přesná kopie vycenzurovaných webových stránek jakéhosi kanadského pedofila, který si říkal "Ronald McDonald". Zde je s autorovým souhlasem použita od roku 1997 jako dokumentační příloha článku o dětské pornografii na internetu, publikovaného v našem tehdejším webzinu Virtuální kabaret Martina Maniše. _________________________________ This is mirror of a censored web site by some Canadian pedophile called himself "Ronald McDonald". Used here by permission from 1997 as a documentation for the article about child porn on internet, published in the Martin Manis's Virtual Cabaret (former Czech webzine, in the Czech language only).

The Pedophilia/Pedophile Education Web Site Mirror

• Understanding sexual contact with children from adults
• Common problems of sex with children

UNDERSTANDING SEXUAL CONTACT WITH CHILDREN FROM ADULTS

Most people are ignorant about every aspect of sex between adults and kids. This article will try to dispel some of the most common myths. The first misconception is that ALL sex between children & adults is automatically harmful-nothing could be further from the truth! It can even be beneficial. Sex with a young person can be a good experience for both parties if the conditions are right. Sadly, that is not often the case due to society and their stupid, uneducated views on this subject. The close-mindedness on sex and in particular regarding sex between adults and kids often does plenty of harm to many children. It is important to understand that the cause of harm is GUILT, SHAME, and phony self-defeating religious brainwashing involving the concept of "sin" that causes damage in adult-child relationships-not the pedophile!

Assuming the relationship is a non-coercive/non-forcing one, it can potentially be good for the child-but the hang-ups and forcing of kids into "therapy" to admit they "were victimized" (really by the therapists themselves!) is a major problem. It is also a problem that the pedophile is punished for the "crime" of loving a child. This is often a person the child cares quite a bit about, and seeing him/her go to jail reinforces guilt (over something that was not wrong in the first place!) and does considerable damage to that child. How would you feel if someone YOU loved was hurt like this? Therapists come in and attempt to brainwash the child by telling her/him that they are "victims" as opposed to willing participants. Children are often inexperienced and do not see all the "consequences" of sex-but so are many adults-and they do not get someone pregnant or become pregnant! Just because a child does not see ALL the so-called ramifications of sexual activity does NOT mean they cannot enjoy sex with themselves or a loving adult to guide them! Kids are permitted to become child-star actors, and at the time they undoubtably do not know all the pressures of fame & its eventual effects-but that does not stop adults from permitting then to take up acting! Sex is NOT different! It is crucial to understand &accept this fact to make headway with the ignorance.

A child IS sexual! Small boys have erections and girls lubricate. All of us are sexual! This is another essential point to digest. It is often hard for adults to admit that kids are or can be sexual. Many adults are guilt-ridden enough to have a problem expressing or accepting their OWN sexuality-let alone that of a child! The reason aside from shame for this denial is the belief that kids are "unspoiled territory" in an otherwise rotten corrupt world. Adults do not WISH to think of children that way-even though they ARE that way! In several respects, kids are MORE sexual than adults, since they have fewer hang-ups and guilt-complexes to burdon them! That is why when a pedophile is taken away from a child and that youngster is brainwashed into thinking they had been taken advantage of, it is often one of the first heavy-handed tastes of sexual guilt a person gets in their life. This is what does harm to a child of a pedophile relationship-not the pedophile!

Only by removing guilt and other misguided trappings of our society can we stop this damage. The solution is not to scapegoat or blame pedophiles! The root causes of the problems (when they exist) must be examined in order to help children cope. The answer is NOT to deny kids healthy sexual expression in a free manner with a pedophile whom they love, care and respect! That would be the worst thing for them and only serves to perpetuate sexual guilt feelings by telling them that it is wrong for adults to teach kids sex first-hand, & that it is bad or shamful for them to desire it themselves! We SHOULD teach them by actually having sex with them! Sexual education is like other types-you learn best by doing! Only thing is our hung-up societies do not preach this fact in regard to sex, despite doing so with other topics! Children can experience climax and the feelings are intense-that is why they require someone with experience to guide them down the road safely and guiltlessly! An adult is a perfect teacher. We owe it to the children of our world to help them experience the pleasure and release of sex. We need to be there for them to utilize as partners to practice on. We must make ourselves and our bodies available to kids for sex. Do not laugh-I'm quite serious!

Children need sex. They require release like you do but are denied it with a partner who can teach them and guide them through it lovingly. Many young children masturbate for relief-and what does mom and dad do when they find out? Why, they slap the kids hands and tell them to stop or they will go blind! Once again, this only leads to oppressive, damaging GUILT. By age 11, I was a compulsive masturbator & collected hard-core pornographic magazines like HUSTLER! I was VERY sexual and I was asking for it on a regular basis (and never seemed to get it!) and yet society would have believed I was as innocent as can be. This harmed me. If I had only known a pedophile then, I would have been much happier in my childhood! But then again, if I had decided to have sex with a pedophile adult, they would have been imprisoned and I would have been in therapy for brainwashing to accept my "abuse". But my childhood had a happy ending-fate soon blessed me at 11 and a half with a woman pedophile who sexually educated me! Other kids are more like I was than you maybe would like to admit. Perhaps you were something like this in your own youth and due to guilt you wish not to admit this side of yourself existed. Think back and be honest with yourself-it is ok to be sexual and you are not alone or wrong! Stop feeling guilty about a natural bodily function and do not infect our kids!

Children do many things that are new to them. Sex is one of those things. A child must learn sometime, and "waiting for their wedding" is WAY too late! The sex drive is the most important one in our species besides breathing air and eating! We are made for sex! Children are made to enjoy it too! Repressing these feelings is NOT healthy. It is also unhealthy for kids to deny themselves relief. Sex by itself is NOT damaging to kids. This is a myth designed to attack pedophiles and deny kids their rights. In a misguided effort to "protect" kids, society has actually HARMED them by repressing perfectly natural feelings which DEMAND expression. Without it, healthy development and beliefs about sex are problematic. Kids masturbate and climax, and it does NOT "scar" them for life! By itself (remember-it is the guilt not the sex!) having sex with an adult (or another child) will NOT harm a child! It is a normal bodily function. Kids urinate and defecate as you do-they also experience sexual gratification (usually via masturbation) just as you do. A 10 year old boy may not ejaculate semen, but he CAN climax. A 10 year old girl can and often already does masturbate and she climaxes. Society needs to accept that kids are sexual beings.

There is NO proof at all that adult/child sex is actually harmful! Guilt harms-not pedophiles! Rapists leave scars and non-consenual sex between adults and kids IS harmful. But pedophiles ONLY have consensual sex with kids! What we see in sex abuse cases is exactly that-sex abuse. The key is that not ALL adult/child sex is abusive! If a child is forced or coerced, of course they will be affected for years. If you were raped, that would happen to you, too! But pedophiles are NOT rapists! People confuse the two and so does the media. They would have you believe that the killer of Megan Kankla a few years back was a "good example" of a pedophile. The sicko that brutally raped and killed Megan was NOT a pedophile. No pedophile advocates use of force on kids or would harm a child. This case led to the passing of an unconstitutional law designed to protect communities but really scapegoats pedophiles by lumping them with child rapists! The so-called "Megan's Law" states that if a released sex offender of children moves into a neighborhood, the locals must be notified. The trouble is, of course, that an "offender" can be a violent rapist OR a loving pedophile-no distinction is made and this is very unfair and wrong. It also sends bad messages to kids and parents about pedophiles and their true nature. Pedophiles are good, loving people-not animals.

Putting the abuse question aside, we ultimately, we must learn that we have no choice but to admit that kids are sexual and that they need to be taught this aspect of life as much as being shown how to brush their own teeth. Yes, kids trust adults-that is EXACTLY why we owe it to them to offer ourselves to them for experimentation! As an adult, I protect kids and am the responsible one. I can help a child cope with sexual feelings and emotions. Pedophiles are great for this. We only ask that you let us educate your kids and love them. We only desire the best for them. With our guidance, kids can learn all about sex safely, with a caring adult to show them them the ropes. Compare this with simply "telling them" about it. A child will not learn this way! They need to actually be free to experience sex and feel a partner-induced climax first-hand for themselves-not read about it in some cold, clinical book!

Give them that chance. Do not deny them the right of sexual free-expression. Children DO intitiate sexual contact with adults and there is nothing wrong with it. Adults can also intiate. We must teach our kids the importance of their right to own themselves. This means they can REFUSE sex with an adult at any time. It also means they can accept an offer and inititiate one themselves! This is the part that society hypocritically refuses to allow. They say kids own themselves, but when that belief is tested, society applies a double-standard and denies kids a right to do as they wish to themselves. Implied in the belief that kids can say no is the acceptance of them saying yes! You cannot have it both ways. Either they own their bodies or they do not. If they can only say "no" according to you, then they do not own themselves in your eyes! Pedophiles are the opposite of "predators". In fact, they are the ONLY TRUE "child advocates" in this regard on earth, since the take the opinion of the child and his/her wishes into full account! Pedophiles love children. That is what the word means, (pedo=child phile=lover) it is not a bad word to describe a monster-except in the eyes of the media which distorts and sadly shapes public opinion against child-loving advocates-i.e. pedophiles. It is time for a new opinion about us-a positive one.

Another issue concerns the availability of children to pedophiles. Recently, yet another misguided effort has begun to "purge" pedophiles out of youth organizations. Kids need pedophiles. Pedophiles need kids. This is cruel and wrong. Since pedophiles are not harmful to kids, keeping them apart is silly. Several pedophiles work in these capacities to be close to children as an outlet. Many times no sex is even involved, which is not surprising since most pedophiles are abstinate in any case (save masturbation) and often force themselves to live without the sex they crave with kids. Just being around children makes pedophiles happy. It is not all about sex! If you were to ask a pedophile what they want from children, most will say "companionship". We like to be with them and interact with them if possible on many levels. Many pedophiles would just a soon help a child they care about with their homework as have sex with them-the key is being with them! A pedophile is attracted to youth organizations because of the chances for contact with kids-not to hurt or molest them, but simply to be with them.

The problem pedophiles have (particularly male ones) is that if ANY adult shows a special excessive interest in kids, that person is immediately suspected of being a pedophile. This leads to pedophiles being separated from their outlets & it harms them. It also leads to kids being taken away from people that truly care about them. It is often the case that people who show unusual interest in kids are pedophiles but is that a bad thing? Pedophiles can be a VERY positive force in the life of a child. Society does not think so and wonders why pedophiles must add the sexual element. They ask why we cannot always be happy just doing things with them that are non-sexual. The reason is that is one very important aspect of life and one that is something we find very pleasurable when it is with the people we like and love. It is no different than you! If I have sex with an 11 year old girl I love and care about, why do you care if she is willing and loves me too? The trouble is, society assumes that she is incapable of loving, or understanding it. She IS capable-she loves her parents, which is one kind of love. I am only showing her another kind that she is gladly and voluntarily experiencing with me. You must accept that she IS capable of wanting sex and relief, and feeling LOVE for me-her pedophile. You can bet that if I were in such a situation, I would love her-not just use her. It is not merely sexual. I prefer young girls. I do not cruise the streets looking for them to molest! If it happens it does and that is fine.

It is simply my sexual orientation. I cannot help what I am or how I feel about little girls. I long for contact with girls & to be protective of them. I would choose even to have a girl child that I love sleep in the same bed with me for the contact without ANY sex over intercourse with an adult woman! I'd prefer a to help a little girl of my choice whom I care about with her homework over spending my time talking to an adult female on a date! If this sounds odd, remember that little girls to me ARE my world. They are my very existence-like adult women are to many of you. It is not simply sexual! If you are a "regular" heterosexual adult male who like adult females, sex is NOT the only thing is it? You like women and prefer their company, you also like to have sex with a woman you love. As a pedophile, I only ask society for the same thing-to let me have sex with a child I love, who loves me back & consents-is that so much to ask?

Pedophiles do not talk down to kids & treat them with respect and listen to them. This is not the case with an average adult, and kids see right through it. Kids like pedophiles very much, whom they do not see as a heavy-handed authority figure, but rather, as a sort of "older" PEER. That is what confuses the general public about the motivations and methods of pedophiles. Society assumes the pedophile views the child as an object, and uses his/her superior smarts/abilities/experience to control the child to extract sex. But pedophiles do not do this and never advocate such tactics! It goes against their very nature to do that! The reason society falls for this assumption is it is "transferring" what IT would do if in that situation. Since "regular" adults do not really respect or understand children, they assume the same mindset applies to pedophiles-and it does not! A "regular" adult does not understand pedophilia or pedophiles, & so they assume the pedophile is approaching the situation as a "regular" adult with a perverted streak in them-bent on taking advantage of children-since that is what the average "regular" adult could see himself/herself doing if they were sex maniacs looking for an easy outlet to prey on. But pedophiles are not this way-we are not predators looking for targets! Being a pedophile is a way of life-not a sick perversion.

It is time for a new beginning. Pedophiles should be active in the community to educate the masses on this lifestyle. This is currently very hard to do, but it has to happen sometime. Hopefully, pedophiles will be able to personally inform children inside elementary schools about pedophiles & who they REALLY are. We need classes for this purpose where pedophiles show kids in school that we are not child molesters. We can teach them the truth that other misguided adults will not reveal. We are uniquely qualified to show elementary students that they own their own bodies and do not have to accept unwanted sexual contact-and that they can accept or initiate it if they desire! If society would do the smart thing and permit such education, REAL abuse (i.e.unwanted contact by molesters-who are NOT pedophiles) of kids would be sharply reduced. But, unfortunately, the general public is not really interested in stopping kids from being hurt by real abuse-they are more concerned with wrongly blaming pedophiles for their beliefs. If pedophiles were teaching kids, they would learn they have CHOICES. To accept that (as pedophiles do) is true respect for child-and kids will only respect themselves when they understand they own themselves & their bodies & can say no OR yes.

A practical problem of sex with children is physical. It is very important to understand that adults are much bigger than kids. Obviously commmon sense must be used. The size differences CAN be dealt with and sex can be accomplished without harming a child physically. This mostly applies to sex with very young girls. It is probably not advisable for adult male pedophiles to even attempt vaginal penetration with a girl until at least age 9. A girl much below that age is not able in many cases able to handle an adult penis (especially if one has a large penis) being inserted in her vagina. She is often simply too small to take it all the way in easily without pain. The girl may not enjoy full-insertion intercourse no matter how gentle, as she simply is too small & cannot handle the sensation of the penis being fully inserted and withdrawn repeatedly as an adult female can easily allow. Your erect penis may also look HUGE to her, causing apprehension. She may also have an intact hymen, & dealing with this is tricky. You should proceed with intercourse VERY carefully or not at all since you can hurt her quite easily even if you are extra gentle-she is NOT a woman-remember that! In any case, if she becomes familiar with the concept of intercourse, she may ask you to do it. I advise you to not give into her pleading or if so use judgement and proceed VERY carefully and GENTLY. You may have to settle for partial insertion to satisfy her wishes without actually having real intercourse. This way is a safer compromise and with it she can see what it is like sort of without injuring her. If you must break her hymen, do it carefully, but firmly-do not prolong her sexual suffering needlessly. When inserting the penis, (especially her first time being penetrated) do so very slowly & gently & listen to her carefully. Ask her if it is painful, & if she would like you to stop & remove it. If she says to, obey her. You want to make intercourse pleasing not painful, & listening to her is the key. Do not fret, intercourse may still work if you are gentle enough and you do not push her. She may be able to accept penetration with sufficient practice, but that will never happen if you are too rough on her. At the very least, you may be able get her to permit partial insertion and go from there, it just takes time and patience and listening to her feedback. If you cannot have complete intercourse or even partial penetration, do not try and force it-accept it and allow her & teach her to satisfy you in other ways which will not hurt her. The last thing you want to do is harm her, so you may have to accept oral sex (whether she swallows semen or not is something you have to work out with her-do not make her do anything she feels uncomfortable with. In any case, she will probably be fascinated by ejaculate, since it is so alien & new to her even if she understands the biology. Fear of swallowing semen is a woman thing, a learned prejudice that females pick along the way to associating sex with dirtyness and from talk to girlfriends who refuse to do this and give women ideas. Many times they have not even TRIED it before condemning! Hopefully, you can catch her before her friends terrorize her and convert her to these prejudices without at least TRYING it...) or mutual masturbation. She can stimulate you by hand or mouth & you can do the same for her. Female pedophiles who are sexually active with boys have it much easier-you cannot hurt him by letting him insert his erect penis inside your adult vagina. It may be a little loose, but he will not be harmed by it, & you may enjoy it. He should be able to climax by vaginal stimulation if you do it to him right, but it may take work. Anal sex with either sex is likewise risky & should be done carefully with older children or not at all. The most important thing is to listen to the child & not do ANYTHING they do not wish to do. You must not hurt them! If they ask you to stop, it is for a reason! You are probably hurting them or they do not like it. Your child must enjoy it or else you should not do it! You can encourage them, but NEVER make them! Be careful of putting weight on a child-remember, you CAN hurt them very easily & unintentionally if you are not extremely careful. Most pedos are pretty good about this, but it can't be overstated.

A word about pregnancy: This is a concern! Usually, girls do not menstruate until about 12 or so. But there are early bloomers so be very careful! You must be certain she is not able to have a cycle before you allow semen into her vagina. Treat the situation as you would with an adult woman unless you are sure she is safe! For female pedophiles, the same applies. Boys begin ejaculating sperm at around the same general ages as girls start having periods. Once he does so, you CAN get pregnant-so beware! You can test these conditions easily enough. If you are man with a girl near the point of periods, ask her if she has one yet and look for the signs of proof. If you are not sure do not have intercourse with her!. If a woman with a boy, test him by masturbating him to climax yourself first, and see if he produces semen. If not you can proceed without protection-but be careful and use your judgment and use birth control as needed. There is no reason to be paranoid about it-just use common sense and caution.

Concerning locations for sex, always choose one where you will not be discovered or interrupted. This seems obvious but is crucial. You do not want distractions-they only serve to hinder the enjoyment of sex between you and the child. Be patient and do not force your child-lover to do ANYTHING against their will. You can mildly encourage them, but nothing more. Your child probably loves you, so getting them to cooperate will not be that difficult in any case. Be easy and gentle in ALL cases-particularly if you are a male pedophile with a girl-lover. Go slow and take your time. Make sure the child climaxes and not just you if at all possible. Make sex a positive experience that your child-lover will want to experience many more times with you.

The other issue of vital importance is secrecy. It is unfortunate, but vital that the relationship details be kept secret. You must as a pedophile instill this in your child-lover. You will notice that this puts a child in a negative bind-i.e. they must keep a relationship secret for legal reasons, but at the same time, the very aspect of your union being a secret (thus clandestine) leads to guilt and is possibly harmful to the child and is unavoidable. How can you lessen the harm? The answer is interesting. Some pedophiles, in an act of extreme self-sacrifice, try to spare the child by avoiding all sexual contact with real kids. Noble as this seems, it ultimately misguided and NOT in their (or your) self interest. Children need pedophiles. They will never not be hung-up on sex and think it is dirty unless someone (you) shows them at an early age. It is a shame that society does this to kids (and pedophiles) putting them in this position. If pedophiles were allowed as they should be to conduct relationships out in the open and there would be no sneaking around. In addition, if parents and the community were open minded, violent non-pedophile sickos (like Megan's killer) would ordinarily be identifiable and weeded out, leaving only loving true pedophiles who do not advocate force or coercion to have relationships with the kids.

There is a better way. You can try the truth! Tell your child lover the facts and do not spare her/him. Tell them that if they reveal your sexual relationship, their parents probably would not understand. If you love your child-lover (most pedophiles really do-it's not just sexual) tell her/him so early and often. Explain that the world has problems with admitting sexuality. Tell the child that people often wrongly think that sex is bad or dirty, but that is a faulty way to think. Point out your relationship with her/him as proof. Tell the child that sex is a beautiful, natural thing that people often do when they care about or love another. Repeat your feelings about the child at this point to set her/his mind at ease. If you are already having sex with your child-lover, ask her/him HOW what you are both doing could possibly be bad or wrong. The child will have no good answer, since it probably feels good to the child and kids are not nearly as hung-up or hypocritical as adults. They carry less emotional baggage and garbage around-at least until society gets a grip on them as they begin to grow up and discover the sickness of unhealthy, unwarranted guilt! You can save them. You must save them! But to do so, you must not be in jail which kills relationships pretty quick!

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